Read this post from some Gaurav Sabnis from the blog world. He has very ironically made fun of another blogger fellow Prakash who dared to comment and criticize on Gaurav's view.
I read the views of both the fellow bloggers and thinks Gaurav's oint of view to be too much self centric and biased. He portrayes himself as GOD by saying "There have been several occasions when a pretty woman passing by has caught my eye. But not once in my life have I even remotely considered "molesting" or "eve-teasing" anyone.". I understand his point of saying that he had not "eve-teased" the girl then, but if we analyse deeply, what was it that caught his attention? It was sure the dressing of the girl passing by.
So we cannot deny the fact that it is the dressing of the girls that attract men and so their is no doubt that they are responsible for all these rising sexual harassements on women or rather hot-babes, if I am allowed to say so.
It was Menka who broke Valmiki's meditation, and that she did by seducing him and I need not detail here on how girls can seduce a men.
If we get a polling done on the "Eve-teasing" or "Molesting" done on scantily dressed girls Vs well dressed girls, then definitely the percentage of the former would be much higher. And that answers the argument between Gaurav and Prakash.
Now talking about the upbringing - do you think Shakti Kapoor who was caught in the Sting operation was not from a good family and was not brought up well? or about Nadeem Sravan who said to have attempted rape on a fellow actress.
I argue that girls get what they invite for and if the boys sometime crosses their limit, the whole blame goes these uncultured/uncivilised boys, and the poor girl is just the victim.
Gaurav - I suggest you to have a more global view and think from the frame of reference of both the parties before writing such posts. I often visit your blog, not to read YOU but to get the good posts that other bloggers write and you do a very good job of copying and pasting and linking those posts to make one of your own. I understand now that why you do not allow your readers to post their comments online a
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Read both of your mails.
I want to make a few points here.
1. Looking good is everyone's prerogative.You can't take that away.A girl has the right to look good.
2. Why does a girl have to dress in scanty clothes to look good?The two reasons I can think of-
showing off her assets,and I do think that is a very true reason.Second,to be with the times.
Even then(if 2 is what you think is amin reason),they must be DELIGHTFULLY aware of the fact that they are
that they are appealing to the carnal side of the male species.(if they are not delightful then why they wear it and if they are not aware
,then their IQ levels are really low which I don't believe)
So,if somebody is arguing that scantily clad girls are not out to attract males,then he is wrong.Plus,most girls will like to attract boys.
That is basic human character.
However,given all this does that mean that scantily clad girls should be raped or made to suffer lewd comments?
If I am wearing a Rolex Watch and flaunting it,does it mean that a starving man has the right to snatch or steal it?
and what do you mean by "girls get what they invite for"? who said they wanted to hear your humorous comments ?
Ofcourse,there is a question of limit.
We don't won't a country full of saints who close their eyes if they see a girl or look the other side?
But do we need a country where our sisters can't walk a block without confronting a sex-deprived young indian airing out his
fantasies .
3. "So we cannot deny the fact that it is the dressing of the girls that attract men ".Why don't girls (dressed ,semi-dressed ,undressed) attract men or is it only scantily clad
ones that attract. Yes,no denying the fact that scantily clad girls do make us go weak at the knees.
However,all this still doesn't take the crime out of eve-teasing.
Girls most probably,I can only hazard a guess, want you to want them,they want to attract you,that is all they want.Not your comments or dirty stares.(of course,you know the difference between
not closing your eyes and the dirty stare).
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